So I found this comment when I logged on to my blog this morning. At first I was mad and hurt but then I just felt sorry for this person. How cruel and stupid does a person have to be to go around looking for blogs to leave incredibly rude and opinionated comments on. This person (I only know as Beee, too much of a coward to leave their name) really just seems pathetic and sad. How closed minded can one person be?
"OK, I have read enough and wanted to say that not only do you seem so incredibly fake, but delusional as well. You think that baby was a gift to you? Are you nuts? Whether you care to face it or not, that baby suffered prenatally because of YOUR selfishness to force the issue of bearing a child. You messed with Mother Nature and needlessly bore a child whose fate was predetermined through physiological and medical complications. I just don't get people like you who know in advance that you are unlikely candidates to become natural parents and then attempt to have fertility doctors wave a magic wand. Get real. There is nothing heavenly about this, but undoubtedly you will continue to spread your BS about a blessing from god. You should have pursued adoption INSTEAD...from the beginning.
I know you won't post this, but at least you'll read it, sickos!!"
All I can say is that I KNOW Avery was a gift and her condition had NOTHING to do with how she was conceived. Infertility is a disease and those of us that suffer from it have every right to use modern medicine to try to correct it. Just like those who are born with or develop other diseases have a right to use whatever means necessary to correct it. No, my condition is not life threatening and I am not comparing it to that in any way. As a woman I believe I have a right to try to carry a child of my own. Just like the heroine addict who gets knocked up every year or so and brings children into this world who are negatively affected by her drug use. I don't want to get too much into this... I just thought that my friends out there would get a kick out of this comment. I do however want to state again, that I am 100% for adoption and if it weren't so incredibly expensive and such an emotionally, mentally and financially draining process (even more so than IVF in my opinion), I would have done that right away. It makes me sad to think that there are so many children out there in need of homes and the process and the cost keep loving, deserving people from helping them. I hope I do get the opportunity to adopt someday.
And to Beee... whoever you are... I didn't ask you to visit my blog. Nor did I ask you to read my blog OR agree with my decisions. Keep your opinions to yourself. Like we have all heard time and time again "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all". I stand by my decision to do IVF and I know my daughter will be mine forever...that is all that matters!